I rarely come here now......but today I did and found a comment from the past couple of weeks on a post that I did 3 years ago...
Its here , and I allowed the comment to go through ... because I don't believe it
http://adoptedjane.blogspot.com/2008/05/there-is-something-just-so-damn-wrong.html
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Ah Much Better
I really disliked that other template!
And ok this isn't perfect ? like where are the mirrors ! but its better...
Im not blogging that much anyway... Was really getting into a negative spin about it all..
No on appreciates what you say anyway... unless you are popular by some weird default!
And ok this isn't perfect ? like where are the mirrors ! but its better...
Im not blogging that much anyway... Was really getting into a negative spin about it all..
No on appreciates what you say anyway... unless you are popular by some weird default!
Thursday, February 4, 2010
I have fixed comments (I think)
Feel Free to try it out
I cant wait to change my template
Anyone want to volunteer!
I cant wait to change my template
Anyone want to volunteer!
Please Help this Woman Burnt over 80% of her body
Please if you live in America please help this beautiful woman..
Audrey Mabrey
A victim of Domestic Violence her estranged husband threw lighter fluid at her and set her alight :(
She has TWO Small children
She needs help
I have watched the love pour out for Stephanie And Christian Nielson, so I know Americans have huge hearts, please can you help this lovely young woman
Audrey Mabrey
A victim of Domestic Violence her estranged husband threw lighter fluid at her and set her alight :(
She has TWO Small children
She needs help
I have watched the love pour out for Stephanie And Christian Nielson, so I know Americans have huge hearts, please can you help this lovely young woman
Attachment
I was going to leave a comment HERE on my friends blog. But I decided to post it here as a blog post.. I hope a few bells go off!
And Why the FRICK do adoptive children HAVE Attachment issues in the first place
DOH it doesn't take Einstein to work it out
But as ALWAYS the aparents take it that its their fault that its some inner issue they have that is causing this (trying to martyr themselves)
It wouldn't matter WHAT adoptive parent the kid had, the kid would still have attachment issues because its NOT the kids MOTHER. its the kids SECOND MOTHER
Why doesn't society have a problem with people saying that about Step Mothers ?
Oh that's understandable that little johnnie doesn't bond with her, that's his step mother (not the same thing as having your Mother)
But with ADOPTED Children there is supposed to be some sort of magical wand that waves the first mother sorry ERASES The first mother out of the kids life....Forever forgotten to a forever family (ugh just saying those words makes bile rise)
If its easy to understand why a child doesn't bond with its step parent WHY In heavens name is it not easy to understand why the child doesn't bond to their adoptive parent.
A piece of paper with legal words all over it doesn't make attachment miraculously happen
YOU KNOW !
And Why the FRICK do adoptive children HAVE Attachment issues in the first place
DOH it doesn't take Einstein to work it out
But as ALWAYS the aparents take it that its their fault that its some inner issue they have that is causing this (trying to martyr themselves)
It wouldn't matter WHAT adoptive parent the kid had, the kid would still have attachment issues because its NOT the kids MOTHER. its the kids SECOND MOTHER
Why doesn't society have a problem with people saying that about Step Mothers ?
Oh that's understandable that little johnnie doesn't bond with her, that's his step mother (not the same thing as having your Mother)
But with ADOPTED Children there is supposed to be some sort of magical wand that waves the first mother sorry ERASES The first mother out of the kids life....Forever forgotten to a forever family (ugh just saying those words makes bile rise)
If its easy to understand why a child doesn't bond with its step parent WHY In heavens name is it not easy to understand why the child doesn't bond to their adoptive parent.
A piece of paper with legal words all over it doesn't make attachment miraculously happen
YOU KNOW !
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