All About Me, Adopted Jane, Adoption, Reunion, Rejection and Life.
This Blog is Raw and emotional. It might make you cry, It might make you mad, It might make you laugh...I think Adoption and the fact that its NOT all hearts and flowers needs to be told. I think people have a very blurred perspective about what Adoption is actually all about.
Jane, I just spent the last 45 min. reading your blog (found you through Suz) and I feel like we have so much in common! I'm a female adoptee and my "birthmom" or whatever you want to call her has denied contact after a grueling search. Like you, I love my adoptive parents and the search wasn't about replacing them emotionally. I'm so sorry for the loss of your beloved mother. I've also said that I wish Suz was my mom so we could be reunited!! I was actually with Suz when she found the info that led her to her daughter. Like you, I hate my birthday as it is the anniversary of my abandonment by an oddly ruthless woman. I wish you peace and profound happiness that becomes greater every day.
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May next year be better.
I hate/aviod/non celebrate too
Jane, I just spent the last 45 min. reading your blog (found you through Suz) and I feel like we have so much in common! I'm a female adoptee and my "birthmom" or whatever you want to call her has denied contact after a grueling search. Like you, I love my adoptive parents and the search wasn't about replacing them emotionally. I'm so sorry for the loss of your beloved mother. I've also said that I wish Suz was my mom so we could be reunited!! I was actually with Suz when she found the info that led her to her daughter. Like you, I hate my birthday as it is the anniversary of my abandonment by an oddly ruthless woman. I wish you peace and profound happiness that becomes greater every day.
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